To feel ambition and to act upon it is to embrace the unique calling of our souls. Not to act upon that ambition is to turn our backs on ourselves and the reason for our existence. – Steven Pressfield
As a society, we’re losing our sense of ambition.
I fall into that trap all the time. Just the other day, I was out having the best run I’ve had in weeks, enjoying a very quiet and eerily foggy trail, when all of a sudden I find myself at a complete stop trying to take a picture.
I was obsessively snapping different angles, in search of the perfect shot.
Why did I need that picture? For posting, of course.
In that moment, when my run was going beautifully, I was more focused on snapping a photo that would soon disappear down your news feed, than getting the most out of my run. A run that would lead me closer to my goals.
The Ambition Paradox
By definition, runners should be considered ambitious. For the most part people don’t need to run. After all, we aren’t going to die if we skip a few weeks or miles.
The mere act of going out and running at all requires discipline. And ambition. It requires some sort of drive beyond what’s pleasurable in the moment.
So some might consider it unfair for me to say that most runners aren’t ambitious.
But that’s exactly what I’m saying.
Most of us (runners) aren’t ambitious.
Or at least aren’t acting on our ambition within the realm of running.
After all, when was the last time you really put yourself out there and did something you were terrified of? And by terrified, what I really mean is poop-your-pants-scared.
When was the last time you set a running goal you had no idea if you could complete?
For me it was last April, when I ran the Massanutten Mountain Trails 100. Before that it was probably my first marathon. Both of which kept me up at night and consumed my thoughts during the day.
Both of which I signed up for, knowing fully well I might not finish.
They were the type of massive goal that has changed my life.
But that’s just two goals over the course of nearly 6 years. Sure I’ve challenged myself through running, and pushed myself to new limits, but other than those two races, I’ve avoided most of the scary stuff.
The key is to find not only what excites you, but what scares you.
For me, the ambitious goals that excite and scare me most are all about distance.
For you, it could be any number of things:
- To PR in a 5k, 10k, or half marathon,
- To run an ultramarathon, even though the thought of 31+ miles leaves you breathless, or
- To lose weight and get in shape
The goal itself doesn’t matter, as long as it’s ambitious.
The Unambitious Runner
It’s comfortable being an unambitious runner. We get to run with friends, race casually, and avoid the pressure of an intense training plan.
We get to outwardly act ambitious without actually having to put ourselves out there.
Here are a few traits of an unambitious runner:
- A runner who hasn’t followed a new training plan in years
- A runner who signs up for the same local races every year with no desire to PR or push harder
- A runner who runs the same routes, at the same pace, day after day
- A runner who cuts home a few blocks early, just because they don’t feel like going any further
Sound familiar? It does for me too.
In contrast, here are a few traits of an ambitious runner:
- A runner who sets a goal to qualify for Boston, even though they’re currently 30 minutes over the qualifying time
- A runner, who as a 40 year old, is working to break their 20 year old body’s half marathon PR
- A runner who signs up to run a marathon, even though they don’t feel like they’re what someone would call a runner
- A runner who’s determined to complete a trail ultramarathon, when they’ve only been a road runner
There’s nothing wrong with being an unambitious runner. There’s nothing wrong with remaining in the comfort zone.
But something amazing happens when you leave that comfort zone.
You embrace who you really are.
As Steve Pressfield put it so bluntly in Turning Pro, by not leaving that comfort zone and not acting on our ambitions, we “turn our backs on ourselves and the reason for our existence.”
Yikes. Turning our backs on the reason for our existence.
This year, as we set off on the year of smart training choices, let’s also set off with ambitious goals. Let’s leave the unambitious runner in all of us behind, and do something amazing.
3 Steps to Finding Ambition
Habit change and goal setting are complex beasts far too big for this single blog post, so I’m not even going to try. What I do want to point out here, are three steps I think are important for anyone embracing their ambition.
1) Set a Massive Goal Too Big to Let Go Of
Small goals are nice. Precious, even. But when it comes to doing something life changing, you don’t want precious.
You want terrifying.
Did you know that small, easy to achieve goals, are actually less likely to happen?
Small goals don’t excite you like the big ones. If you know you can do it at any time, and you know that because it’s small, there’s no big reward once it’s done, that goal becomes less appealing. And it’s less likely to happen.
Big, ambitious goals, however, are where the real excitement lies. Once engrossed in that ambition, it’s impossible to let go until you achieve what you’re going after.
That’s the kind of goal I’m talking about today. Embrace your ambition by setting a massive goal you can’t leg go of until it’s complete.
2) Go All-In on Convincing Yourself
In 1974, when Gordy Ainsleigh, the first person to run 100 miles in a single day, entered the Western States Trail Ride (the original horseback riding event that eventually became the Western States 100 mile run) without a horse, no one believed he could do it. Fellow horseback riding competitors laughed at him.
But he was convinced he could run the race on foot, just as well as the horses. And if he couldn’t, he sure as hell was going to find out the hard way.
So even though all conventional wisdom and logic were against him, Gordy set out to do something massively ambitious. Because he was obsessed with the idea of running that race, he knew he had to go after it.
When you set a goal to run an ultramarathon, don’t just tell people you’re going to try to run your first ultra. Tell people you’re going to do it.
Don’t tell people you’re going to try to lose 10 pounds. Tell people you’re going to lose that weight.
When you’re able to leave doubt behind and go all in, there’s no stopping you. Gordy finished in just in 23 hours and 42 minutes. Just 18 minutes before the 24 hour cutoff. He knew he could do it, and there was no stopping him.
When you’re convinced you can do something ambitious, you can’t stop until it has been accomplished.
3) Revisit That Goal Daily
This is a big one.
The best way to feel the excitement, drive, and belief in something ambitious is to revisit it all the time.
- Hang post-it notes on your desk or mirror with your race date or goal
- Track or journal your progress
- Ask yourself every single day if what you did that day was enough
That last one is something I learned from Seth Godin’s Pick Four. It’s a simple workbook where every single day you revisit your ambitious goal and write down whether or not you think what you did that day was enough. Checking back in is powerful.
And the beautify of a big, ambitious goal, is that the more you put into it, the more obsessed you become. That obsession keeps you checking in on your effort, and becomes you’re most powerful tool.
It’s Time to Get Uncomfortable
You know the saying, “Get comfortable with being uncomfortable.” I have know idea where it came from, but I like it.
Being ambitious is uncomfortable.
It’s guaranteed to be a lot of hard work, and you’re always risking failure.
Those two things will make you feel uncomfortable.
Right now I’m working hard to be uncomfortable myself. I have big goals for my running and for helping you and so many others through this site. They are the most ambitious goals I’ve ever set, and I couldn’t be more excited.
I also couldn’t be more uncomfortable.
But I’m slowly getting comfortable with that discomfort. And I hope you will join me.
Don’t just continue along the path of being an unambitious runner. Do something big. Do something ambitious.
It’s time we quit turning our backs on ourselves, and see who we really are.